{"id":468,"date":"2022-06-03T19:52:11","date_gmt":"2022-06-03T19:52:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.solitairerose.com\/?p=468"},"modified":"2022-06-03T19:52:11","modified_gmt":"2022-06-03T19:52:11","slug":"what-i-am-thinking-about-today-6-3-2022","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.solitairerose.com\/?p=468","title":{"rendered":"What I am thinking about today: 6\/3\/2022"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Just a reminder, if you leave my life without a chat to tell me why first, that door is closed. My therapist told me ages ago that if someone thinks the worst things said about you without asking for your side, they were never a friend and shouldn\u2019t be allowed to be a part of your life any more.

My work laptop wouldn\u2019t boot up yesterday, so I had to drive in to get a new one. When I got there, I gave it to the tech guy, and he said that my battery was bulging. And, to be honest, after a two year lockdown, aren\u2019t we all?
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When I worked in group homes for juvenile justice in the 90\u2019s, they all had rules against Dungeons and Dragons as a hangover from the \u201cSatanic Panic\u201d in the 80\u2019s. When I was asked about it, I let my supervisors know that D&D wasn\u2019t about demons, it was math. Lots and lots of math. Endless amounts of math. And the teenagers we would get would not be nerdy enough to play the game. Since a lot of them were fundamentalist Christians, they didn\u2019t believe me, since I was the token Heathen.

Still. Math. Maybe they were all just scared of figuring out percentages to hit.
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It looks like the last drive in of the Twin Cities, the Vali-Hi drive in, has closed up. They had the \u201cnow hiring\u201d notice on their sign, then took it down and haven\u2019t opened yet. Their phone is disconnected and aren\u2019t answering any questions from customers or reporters. When I moved here in 1987, there were 6 drive ins, and it was always a great time to take The Boy when he was young so we could have a cheap night at the movies. I went to Vali-Hi a couple of times a year until the pandemic, when I just didn\u2019t have the time. They were always packed, but like the other 5 in the Twin Cities, eventually the land became worth more than the business.

I missed the \u201cgolden age\u201d of drive ins, and always wished they would have had special events like \u201cdusk til down\u201d shows like in the glory days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Big Storm that had the local news going nuts a few weeks ago? No damages and not even a chair moved around by the winds. A quick storm rushes through Tuesday morning without a single warning from any of my devices, tree limbs down and blocking the car in the driveway. I am betting they were damaged in the Big Storm and this quick little squall was the last straw. But still.

Anytime I hear about Ron DeSantis, I have the same impression: A competent Trump. Florida seems like a right wing dream, where everyone is given a gun, gay people are being told to get out of the state, teachers are to become Marc Bolan: The Executioner, companies must bow and scrape or get financially punished, and women are to become Handmaidens. Sadly, much like Minnesota\u2019s time having a Republican governor, the economy gets destroyed and the next governor has to clean up the mess. And he\u2019s going to be the Republican Nominee in 2024 if he wins the Governorship again in Florida.

Be kind, be courageous, and be cool.

Much love to friends old and new.<\/p>\n\"Facebook\"<\/a>\"twitter\"<\/a>\"reddit\"<\/a>\"pinterest\"<\/a>\"linkedin\"<\/a>\"mail\"<\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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