{"id":289,"date":"2017-09-28T16:26:04","date_gmt":"2017-09-28T16:26:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.solitairerose.com\/?p=289"},"modified":"2017-09-28T16:26:55","modified_gmt":"2017-09-28T16:26:55","slug":"thats-how-i-got-to-memphis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.solitairerose.com\/?p=289","title":{"rendered":"That’s How I Got To Memphis"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you love somebody enough you’ll follow wherever they go<\/p>\n

That’s how I got to Memphis, that’s how I got to Memphis<\/p>\n

If you love somebody enough you’ll go where your heart wants to go<\/p>\n

That’s how I got to Memphis, that’s how I got to Memphis<\/p>\n

-Tom T. Hall<\/p>\n

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In the TV series \u201cThe Newsroom\u201d, the final episode uses this song as a storytelling device, with the lead character explaining that\u2019s it\u2019s not Memphis being talked about, but where ever you are. How did you get here.<\/p>\n

I think a lot of about that in my life. How did I get to Minneapolis? How did I start working in social services? How did I start doing podcasts? How did I become a father? How did I become this person\u2019s friend?<\/p>\n

Life is a series of choices, some are presented dramatically, some just sort of happen because you go along with the flow. My move to Minnesota was one where I was with a woman and we were presented with the opportunity to move here. I visited a city I had never thought of going to in order meet someone I had started a relationship on-line for love. I have taken a few trips for love, and while I profoundly regret the first one, I feel the others were important choices.<\/p>\n

I started work in social services because of the people I knew in high school who needed help and none was available to them. Eventually, I tapped out on working with teenagers, and now I work with developmentally disabled adults because I believe all we have is each other, and we need to take care of each other.<\/p>\n

I got into podcasting because it was a new way to tell stories, and because my closest friend was working a travelling job, and it was a way for us to keep in touch and keep the friendship growing. The people I have on the show I do with Joe are people I feel close to and want to share that friendship with. Most of the time, it\u2019s reciprocated. Most of the time.<\/p>\n

Would I move for love? Sure. What I do, I can do anywhere with an internet connection and people who need help. Would I change my life for love? Of course. I\u2019ve done it before. I have changed my future, given myself over to someone, opened my home to those I love, and helped people change their lives because I loved them. Even if they are gone, that\u2019s a choice I made and it\u2019s how I got here.<\/p>\n

I suppose you could also say that everything we do makes us what we are.<\/p>\n

How did YOU get to where you are now? Did you do it for love? Did you do it because it seemed right at the time? Did you just wander into it and have no reason to change? I hope that you did it because you wanted to get to Memphis. Metaphorically, of course, if we all lived there, I don\u2019t think the sewer system could handle it. Life is fleeting and some doors are closed when you walk through them, but I hope that you get to where you wish to go, and that it\u2019s far, far better than you had imagined.<\/p>\n

Much love to friends old and new. Thank you for your precious time. Please forgive me if I start to cry. (Yeah, that\u2019s in the song as well. Go listen to it, you\u2019ll thank me.)<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how I got to Minneapolis. A single comics podcaster with two jobs, one biological child and one who showed up later, working in an office by day and with DD adults at night and weekends, and someone who followed where his heart wanted to go.<\/p>\n\"Facebook\"<\/a>\"twitter\"<\/a>\"reddit\"<\/a>\"pinterest\"<\/a>\"linkedin\"<\/a>\"mail\"<\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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